Month: November 2014

Hiring Maids, an issue to closely look into, as KCCA faces blame

By Andrew Israel Kazibwe

Gone is this week which has highlighted infants, neglect and brutality towards them. To social sites the topics have far more raised debates trough which wrath can more be tasted by parents and those in hopes of joining the line.
Earlier on was the sudden death of baby Ssemaganda an infant who was knocked dead by a reversing (Kampala City Council Authority) KCCA vehicle at the KCCA premises where the baby’s mother was being remanded after being arrested on charges of illegal vending of bananas.
The public, till now is brutal towards the tough restrictions city authorities are implementing. Of course as officials would claim, it was an accident (the baby’s death), and further led by the KCCA boss Jenifer Musisi apologised for the negligence, a contribution by the KCCA boss of 2 million Ug. Shillings, a sack of Rice, a sack of sugar and a 10-litre Jerry can of cooking oil were offered to the deceased’ family to help out with burial arrangements, which I hear were rejected. Of course this ‘contribution’, in the eyes of many, seemed more than ‘compensation,’ yet with life, this can’t be comparable.
The week has really ended in a more, further miserable mood, as a house maid was discovered by parents as she for long had victimised a little girl. With brutality she would batter the infant in a cold-hearted way. Through the video clip which is said to have been recorded by one of the parents through a cam, later making way onto local news Televisions and later onto social sites has raised a lot of concerns, not only in Uganda but elsewhere, thanks to severance cams, which many parents are to more rush for as a primary solutions to what has long been hidden, if any.

As I write or you read this piece, curiosity more rises of ‘Whether one’s child is safe back home’ or how safe children are in the hands of house maids or nannies.

We can less blame the parents for entrusting maids with lives of their children, but we further would not keep ourselves from thinking and asking why maids will turn out so evil!
It is true, due to the ‘burning’, tightening situation faced by the entire society, parents are better versed with their job descriptions than the lives they are meant to save. This doesn’t leave out the well-to-do families as these silently fall victims.
What would trigger a maid to turnout so reckless and cold-hearted is believed to be related to the employers-aren’t maids more passing on their grieve and ill treatment to the naive children?

How parents treat a maid more affects the lives of children they take care of. Most African maids aren’t trained to do so and many have no idea on parenting, yet parents aren’t closer to their children than they feel. So, what would one consider before, during and after hiring a maid?

Andrew Israel Kazibwe is an African Rwandan-based freelance Journalist , a learner, Arts enthusiast and advocate. Passionate about what goes on within lives, he shares whats within, around and closer to you. Its an Insight!!! 

Why Public confession is the rarest of things

Iam quite sure that a lot of thought builds within, even before you read through this piece. I can surely guess that this is because you too find it creepy- ‘Making a public appearance to carry on a confession!’
See, we all have been there, walked down that road of lies and deceit, for many reasons we’ve held onto us- all aimed towards ‘protecting others’, but most of all protecting ourselves.
Reputation and image is what the world is craving for, and with a good reputation, ‘doors so open’ await one. At most, a good reputation is rarely questioned or cautioned, a few will but not deeply well as a bad one is exposed to the open, for all to see.
Talking of bad reputation being exposed; times have changed that for most especially Political leaders,leaders, Public figures, the noble rich…, a bigger price they pay to protect their image. See, they predict how a lot can be lost on their exposure.
Back to ‘Public Confession’, usually one will tend to come out when one’s deeds have already been known, when nothing can be hid anymore.

The Pain
What raises worry and tension is mainly the aftermaths of confession, see one coming out before public discovers their wrongs is so rare, but the few who do so will beat most people’s understandings, even their criticizers will gaze in disbelief, while te whole act will be wrapped up as an ‘act of bravery’.

When a decision is made and is shared with some closest or comrades, various views will come out-‘Do you know what this is to do to your image?’ is that stubbing question they regularly will pose.
At times when one goes ahead with the confession, they are thought of as not being ‘men enough’ or being cowards.
The shame slowly melts off, down and a fresh path is taken as one thinks to themselves ‘what is done is done.’
So, one should really wonder why a confession, not for reputation’s sake is so good and vital, yet in reality and in a long run, the pain of guilt slowly tears apart one’s soul.
Only the courageous enough will opt for a public confession, while the cowards hide behind what they greedily refer to as ‘Reputation’