Month: February 2014

FGM still haunting Girls in Kenya, Uganda

A nightmare it is still to girls especially among the Kuria people of Kenya and some parts of Tanzania. Circumcision has proved a life threatening ritual that some among society live to regret.
In a recent screening last at Goethe institut Kigali of ‘The Cut’, a movie 43 minutes documentary film by Beryl Bagoko as the director. The award winning film portraying the painful cultural ritual of circumcision and female genital mutilation (FGM) majorly among a certain tribe in Kenya, still being taken it on strongly by some people is a touching story of pain faced.
The story digs deep into reality of the painful celebration and initiation of one into becoming a real man, and a woman.
“Indeed people have customs, and this is not worth bearing!,” Pierre Kwitonda from the audience wondered.
The story features live testimonies of girls to women about the whole experience basically among women; with misunderstanding, till to date in societies; with some saying ‘it makes one areal woman’ while others also sticking onto the ritual admitting to the fact that it FGM reduces sexual pleasure and libido of one which controls fornication among women. The discrimination it yields among the un circumcised is expressed while the pain one goes through is witnessed through this movie.
The documentary also features interviews by Kenya based health personnel who too testify against the ritual saying that it leads to reproductive complications especially among expectant mothers and that there is a high risk of disease infections among those being circumcised since it is carried out by people outside the health sector; equipment used isn’t sterilized.
Despite the fact that this tribal act has been stronger before, through campaigns, especially through schools, awareness has been created and some of the people are now being convinced of the health affecting dangers involved.
Talking of the Kuria people in Kenya, and some parts of Tanzania reminds me of the Amudat people of Uganda, where the same custom occurs, region’s political leaders leave in fear of condemning it in public-according to sources but a statement against this practice has been issued by Uganda’s junior Minister in charge of primary health care.

It takes real courage and determination to end the ritual which has persistently eaten deep in some societies. I wonder how many are to stand up longer in this fight!

Over Expectant about Valentines?

Around the corner it is and with it lots it breeds and yields, especially to believers- of course some don’t and hold their strong reasons, basing on experiences.
The ‘Red to Black’ day should be given a passionate but patient approach; expectations for most are high, higher I meant; speaking of the ‘Reds’; from outfits to the roses, places, gifts, the wine, hope the Red wine awaits for some-stylish, isn’t it?
Handling disappointments, amidst the ‘high expectations’ is a crucial tip.
To some, a few I guess, the day has been part of them-yes, they have always treated each other to the ‘valentines treat’ daily, so the 14th is a go ahead to them, “Everyday is valentines,” they say, wow, so lucky!!!, while to most, a wake up call it becomes- some are impatiently waiting, aside for surprises from their spouses; trouble comes when they are forgotten, then there goes a relationship to ruins…
Also the choices of celebrating the day matter, a lot…How and where? Realness here counts too, one doesn’t have to over stretch themselves, beyond their limits- making it simple and calm all counts; it’s a day, make it memorable in a positive way.
About places, go out for the quiet one, you need some peace and a moment of calmness for yourselves; create a memorable experience, to last.
It is not a day for judgment or scrutiny; understanding each other is major here. Be less expectant about stuff this day, keeping your hopes not high may work out best.